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Divisly for Android

Divisly guides you through cataloging what you own together and help you in deciding who should get what.

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Divisly for iOS

Divisly guides you through cataloging what you own together and in help you deciding who should get what.

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Workbook: Household Tasks after Separation or Divorce

When you shared a household with someone, a lot of tasks stayed invisible because someone else was handling them. The furnace filter, the car registration, who walked the dog. This workbook is a room-by-room and month-by-month checklist for finding those tasks before they find you, and for building a system you can actually keep up with on your own.

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Workbook: Children's Care

This is a place to write down details that usually live in one person's head: contact info for the pediatrician and the dentist and the school, known allergies, insurance details, shoe sizes, etc. It is a record you can hand to someone else, not an assessment of how you are doing. It is also not a parenting plan.

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Workbook: Key Info for Pets

Wondering "who keeps the dog"?

Deciding what happens to a pet is one of the parts of a separation people are least prepared for, partly because the law does not treat it the way most pet owners do. In most states an animal is considered property, which means the question is handled differently than anything involving children. This workbook is four pages for working through care, costs, and key info about your pet, in a form you can share with the other household.

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Workbook: Bill Pay and Accounts

Most households run on autopay, and most autopay is attached to one person's payment card, one person's email, and account settings nobody has looked at in years.

This workbook is a place to find all of it before something lapses during a separation: what is being charged, where it is charging from, what is in whose name, and what may need be changed down the road rather than just cancelled. It is a record of current state, not a plan for dividing anything.

Note: many accounts can't be changed unilaterally, and a few shouldn't be touched before a filing or when a temporary order is in place. Consult a licensed legal practicioner in your state to find out what applies to your situation.

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